Maintaining a high vibration in your personal energy space is very important for keeping your vibration high enough to not be infiltrated by external low-vibrational energy. When we try to live from “out there” rather than from “in here” it causes our energy to be scattered and easily drained. This post is especially for empaths or highly sensitive people.
Your personal space is an egg-shaped bubble or aura that extends about eighteen inches outside your physical body. (Your aura and soul essence can expand far beyond this range.) This eighteen inches is all the energy we are responsible for maintaining and holding steady! We make it difficult on ourselves by trying to maintain more than this, or by trying to alter other people’s fields. We do this by sending our thought forms and emotional energy where they do not belong: back to the past (regrets), into the future (worrying), or to someone and the drama they have or are creating. Being able to hold resonance in your own vibrational field and keep it clear from the energy of those around you is the most helpful thing you can do assure inner peace. It is from this space that you create everything you encounter in your personal world.
We are taught to give and give, and sometimes take a little. But, taking is not the same as receiving. Being able to receive is a big part of the shift in consciousness, not only for us personally as individuals, but also culturally, globally, and cosmically. The truth is that we are not responsible for healing or “fixing” other people. If you see someone who is suffering, you can have compassion for them without getting entangled in their personal drama or the mess you may perceive that they are creating in their lives. I know that that sounds rather harsh and hard nosed. That’s because we have been taught to care for other people by taking on their suffering. Martyrdom is considered to be a virtue by many religions, but it really keeps people from taking responsibility for their own lives and what they are creating. Many times this kind of “rescuing” causes us to sacrifice our own well being and distracts us from what we need to be tending to in our own lives.
Let’s say that someone comes to you in distress. Perhaps he or she is experiencing illness, dysfunctional relationships, a lack of money, loss of job, unruly rebellious kids, etc. You can try to correct or heal this person’s symptoms, but that does not do any good. You have to go to another level in order to help that person embody their soul vibration. When they do that, things shift to a place of synchronicity and harmony. That is one of the things I love about the energy of light language. It is like a stem cell that knows exactly where to work and what needs to take place in order to help us evolve and expand. If clearing is needed, that happens. If a higher aspect of soul is ready to come in, integration begins. If clarity is needed, information comes. (light language sessions)
By the way, when your life is falling apart, it is not a negative thing or an indication that you did something wrong, or that you are a failure, or that you cannot get your act together. There is no need to judge it or think it is your fault or that you are a victim. This shaking loose and “falling away” can be realigning your life to better match Divine will and help you express your authentic higher self. When more evolved aspects of your soul begin to merge with your body/incarnation, it will naturally push out or raise the frequency of anything that is not bringing you forward on your path to realizing your wholeness. If you need help with understanding this process, please consider a coaching session with Yvonne Perry.