Why do some people hear from their “deceased” loved ones while other people do not?
Hearing from a deceased loved one is a two-way street. First of all, the deceased soul has to be able to find a pathway to the person they are trying to reach. Since I’m not on the other side of the veil, I am not sure how difficult that might be. Visitation seems to occur most easily in the space where the deceased lived or spent a lot of time. Secondly, the person who wants to hear from the deceased has to be open to the frequency that the deceased is transmitting. Some people are naturally more open to other realms of consciousness and can access more frequency bands than others. Depending upon these circumstances, even if a soul is trying to reach you, they may not be able to get through to you.
If you take time to reach the stillness of your own heart, you will raise your vibration and enter alpha or theta brainwave stage where you are more likely to sense her presence and share a sweet exchange of loving energy. (Delta, or deep sleep, is also a time when you might connect.) During these peaceful meditation moments, you may also be able to connect with other family members who are of a high vibration.
Some people remember their dreams every night. Others rarely remember their dreams. If a person is visited by the deceased in their dream time, it is possible that they did not remember upon awakening that their beloved came to them.
It is quite normal for a loved one’s visits to become less frequent and less powerful as time passes. While you may miss the presence of your loved one, be assured that this is actually a good sign that his or her soul is adapting to the higher realms and their astral body is being absorbed into the light. This doesn’t mean that she won’t be able to visit you. Her visits may be less noticeable because her vibration will be higher than what humans typically sense during our hurried days when our brains are at beta brainwave stage.
Those spirits who are manipulative have a denser astral body and you will likely be able to sense their presence more easily. They are a closer match to the vibration of the earth plane and its chaos.
If you would like to connect with your ancestors in a way that helps them, and you, and your descendants, you will enjoy this upcoming workshop with Janice Mickle called “Honoring the Ancestors.”
Check out Yvonne’s book, More Than Meets the Eye True Stories about Death, Dying, and Afterlife. Purchase paperback on Amazon.com. It’s also on Amazon as an e-book for those who have Kindle or Sony Readers. The audio book is also available on my website at https://weare1inspirit.com/downloads/audio-book-about-death.