A new generation of celestial children is coming in with much more of their multidimensional selves intact or already integrated. This prevents them from being easily programmed the way children in the past have been. They are not willing to be manipulated into following the “smallness” syndrome of human programming.
They have a conscious awareness within them. They know they are special, but not in an arrogant way. They are self-assured and have a broader perspective on life. Many of them know why they are here and are eager to start their mission. They are risk takers, unafraid of peer pressure.
Most adults have an attachment-based or codependent relationship with spouses, parents, children, co-workers, and even pets that keep them from being able to take a step back and see the big picture. They are more focused on pleasing others and can’t see the importance of taking care of their own needs and loving themselves as much as they love others. They are entangled in relationships without boundaries.
By the way, boundaries are not walls we set up to protect ourselves. Boundaries allow us to detach in order to be who we are and live authentically and without apology. Detachment to outcomes is empowering because it allows us to act maturely and in accordance with our mission even if means taking a risk. There is no emotional reaction when our choices offend someone whose expectation of us is limiting or whose comments are demeaning. It takes courage to live like that.
Detachment allows us to make good decisions that are in alignment with our higher guidance. We do not allow fear to keep us from moving forward. Detachment helps us pray in divine will without specifying what must or must not happen in a situation. Instead, we hold a frequency that allows divine will to work itself out.
Light language allows us to direct energy without an attachment to the outcome. That is the reason I like to use it in my client sessions–it removes the assumption that I should know best what another person needs. It allows Spirit to flow in the highest and best way to meet the needs of an individual.
A self-assured child or walk-in is able to live in authenticity even at the expense of letting go of familiar, comfortable, or safe expectations that keep them living small. Setting boundaries is easier when healthy detachment is employed. You will know yourself and what you want in life. You have the courage to ask for the help you need. You sense no need to fix a situation, change another person or keep him or her from having their own experience or feelings.
So many times people don’t move on because they are more worried about the happiness of others than they are about their own joyful living. It is scarcity mindset to think that there is not enough joy to go around or that Source can’t be trusted to fulfill everyone’s needs. Caretakers feel a need to rescue or make sure everyone else is going to be okay. It is like they need permission from family and friend just to take care of themselves. Personal freedom comes in no longer playing god by shielding others from the consequences of their own behavior.
There is a tenaciousness spirit with a walk-in soul. A single-minded focus on what needs to be done in order for the mission to play out. They are moved along by a greater force than what the ego can manage to manipulate. Learn more in this video interview with Maxine Taylor and Mary Rodwell.